Quotes By Iris Murdoch

The priesthood is a marriage. People often start by falling in love, and they go on for years without realizing that love must change into some other love which is so unlike it that it can hardly be recognized as love at all.

No love is entirely without worth, even when the frivolous calls to the frivolous and the base to the base.

All art is a struggle to be, in a particular sort of way, virtuous.

Being good is just a matter of temperament in the end.

Perhaps misguided moral passion is better than confused indifference.

Every man needs two women: a quiet home-maker, and a thrilling nymph.

The cry of equality pulls everyone down.

Falling out of love is very enlightening. For a short while you see the world with new eyes.

Philosophy! Empty thinking by ignorant conceited men who think they can digest without eating!

Human affairs are not serious, but they have to be taken seriously.

One doesn't have to get anywhere in a marriage. It's not a public conveyance.

Writing is like getting married. One should never commit oneself until one is amazed at one's luck.

Perhaps when distant people on other planets pick up some wavelength of ours all they hear is a continuous scream.

The notion that one will not survive a particular catastrophe is, in general terms, a comfort since it is equivalent to abolishing the catastrophe.

In philosophy if you aren't moving at a snail's pace you aren't moving at all.

Happiness is a matter of one's most ordinary and everyday mode of consciousness being busy and lively and unconcerned with self.

Between saying and doing, many a pair of shoes is worn out.

Moralistic is not moral. And as for truth - well, it's like brown - it's not in the spectrum. Truth is so generic.

I see myself as Rhoda, not Mary Tyler Moore.

We live in a fantasy world, a world of illusion. The great task in life is to find reality.

Anything that consoles is fake.

In almost every marriage there is a selfish and an unselfish partner. A pattern is set up and soon becomes inflexible, of one person always making the demands and one person always giving way.

The absolute yearning of one human body for another particular body and its indifference to substitutes is one of life's major mysteries.

A bad review is even less important than whether it is raining in Patagonia.

We shall be better prepared for the future if we see how terrible, how doomed the present is.

He was a sociologist; he had got into an intellectual muddle early on in life and never managed to get out.

We can only learn to love by loving.

I daresay anything can be made holy by being sincerely worshipped.

There is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for-granted relationship.

Literature could be said to be a sort of disciplined technique for arousing certain emotions.